Tag: personal-growth
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Know Your Worth
“People get what they deserve.”“Good things happen to good people.”“You get what you work for.” Let’s call this exactly what it is—polished, inspirational, refrigerator-magnet bullshit. If life actually handed out rewards based on effort or moral virtue, half the crooks would be bankrupt, the decent people would be wealthy, and we wouldn’t need dollar-store wisdom…
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Regrets? I’ve had a few
As I enter the final year of my fifties, two phrases seem to surface: “if only”, and “I wonder.” I recently ran into an old high school classmate, and we went through the usual catching-up rituals: how are the kids, receding hairlines, comparing aches and pains. Then he asked if I had regrets about choices…
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Perfectly Imperfect
Does one moment or event define us, make us who we are? No, it is every high, low, trouble and triumph. As the adage states, “none of us are as good as our best moment, or as bad as our worst.” We are imperfect creatures- physically, emotionally, spiritually, and communally. In all aspects of life,…
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Changes … and Triggers
For me, sometimes it’s the smell of autumn, shorter days, cooler temperatures; other times it is a certain sound or an image that flashes before me. Anyone who has struggled with mental wellness – depression, anxiety, PTSD– knows all too well that being triggered is part of the ongoing struggle. I am by no means…
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